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SWEETIE PIE'S TIM NORMAN | HE HAS MOMMY ISSUES
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Aug 22, 2022
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I know that Miss Robbie was probably not around much, but I don't really know what years she wasn't around
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Because we know even though he may have had family that was caring for him while his mom was working, right
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Because that's what his mom had to do, his mom had to work. You know what I mean
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To take care of him. we don't know what his upbringing was like where he was in in not having his mom because that's
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important when you when you I mean he probably maybe knew where his mom was but that doesn't
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negate the fact that he wanted to be or spend time with his mom and dad for that matter so
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Where was his dad during the time before he was getting into trouble
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Or I believe his aunt was raising him and things like that
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And I think she had kids of her own. So it probably was difficult for her too if he was getting into trouble, her trying to rein that in
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she may not have known how to um and then mom and dad wasn't around you know so it was it was
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probably difficult for her um and probably hard for him not to have his mom around let alone you
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know not his dad both of your parents are not around you know what I mean and for a child
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it's hard to understand that your parent is working they don't care that you're working
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they don't prime example when um covid started i had to work from home and
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don't get me wrong working from home is a blessing but when the schools are closed
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when the daycares are closed your kid don't care that you gotta work they're gonna knock on the
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door, your office door. They're going to bust in. They want to spend time with their parents
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So it don't matter if he was being fed, if he had a place to stay, if he was with his auntie
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and cousins having fun. He still probably long for his mama, right? So that could have been
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And again, this is my opinion that could have been a trigger
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To him getting into some trouble now, it may have started off as mild trouble
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Right. Because, you know, for kids, some negative attention is better than no attention
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Right. And so to some kids, they so they're they so quick with it
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And, you know, they're thinking it's so on point that they'll get in trouble, like, you know, get arrested and stuff like that, just so the mom can come back
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Just so the mom can say, hey, I'm on the road, but I got to go and sit by my son
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Right So then they have manipulated to the point where the mom has come back But that what they want You see what I saying And I not saying that it right or wrong or whatever But this is sometimes what happens And so I don know if he got into trouble before then
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If he robbed allegedly, if he beat allegedly somebody for a I think I think I heard it was for a radio or something like that
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I would imagine he probably got in trouble before then. He was probably into some trouble before then because
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I don't see, and it could happen, but I don't see a 17-year-old just, now again
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it could happen, right? Going out and just making me say, oh, I'm going to rob or beat somebody
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without having some type of sign or something before then that he wasn't in a good place
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you know what I mean? So that's the only thing we know. But that alone, those two things alone
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tells me a lot, right? Your mom wasn't around. What does it tell me? You felt abandoned
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that's one thing you felt like nobody was there for you now again you with your family
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but you're not with your mom or your dad people gotta realize especially our people we gotta
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realize that it means a lot to have your mom and your dad you know you could be you know raised by
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your auntie, you had millions of dollars, you want your mama and you want your daddy
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We got to realize that it makes a big difference, right? So you felt abandoned, you felt lonely, right
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Because then you see your cousin with their mom. And that's not the same type of relationship
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You know, that's just, it's not a good comparison probably, but sometimes
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you know when parents have to work if your parents work a third
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shift or something you gotta stay at your auntie house with your cousins or whatever you know what I'm saying you
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might have fun for a little bit but then you ready to go home
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you wanna go home you know what I'm saying so and home is where
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your mom is where your dad is so you know those two things
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he could have been dealing with you know I don't know what school he went to in St. Louis. That's the third thing
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Because you got a mixture of school in St. Louis. Now, people got to realize too that St. Louis is big but small
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Pretty much everybody know somebody from somebody's family when you really start sitting down and talking to them
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You know, you pretty much know who's who, you know. So, you know, so, and it's crazy because if you're from St. Louis and you meet somebody else from St. Louis
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then they're going to ask, the first thing people ask you is, like, what school you went to. Why that be the first thing you ask
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Why is that Like what difference is it going to make what school I went to but that just how we are okay so you can I don know what school you went to you know and apparently I don know
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if he made it to high school or he dropped out before then or he did a couple years in high
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school and then he dropped out because I don't think he got his high school diploma
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You know, I don't think he graduated. So, I mean, he was 17 when he went to prison
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So, he might have been enrolled in school. Maybe he wasn't going
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But that tells you that he was getting in trouble. You know what I'm saying
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He was probably getting in trouble. Probably wasn't going to school, skipping class or whatever, whatever, you know
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And again, kids do that stuff. But but you you got to know when you got to get back on, you know, when you got to handle your business, you know, now you might not go there, but you know, you got to go to school
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You know, you got to finish school. You know what I'm saying? So I don't really know
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Again, the bottom line is that something had to be going on with him before that happened
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right okay so abandonment feeling lonely right um probably having issues with school
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um and again depends on you know what school he went to the third thing the fourth thing is that
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I would like to know you know what what kind of outlet did he have you know was he involved in
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sports um a lot of times the kids aren't involved in sports that keeps them away from things that
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are happening from the streets basically you know getting into trouble and things like that
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but I haven't heard you know if he was involved in anything or he had coaches or you know uh
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things like that but I for me I think the biggest thing is that because his mom was not there
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probably is what kind of set this whole thing off of him, you know, just not caring, right
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Because it's kind of like nobody else cares, so I'm not going to care either
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Like my mom doesn't even care enough to be here with me. And I'm not saying that his mom did not care because the mama got to work, you know, but
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kids just don't, they don't think in that way, right? And then, too, who knows
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The mama could have been there. The mama could have been coming back every week. We don't know. Ms. Robert could have been coming back, visiting him every week, getting ready for school
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We don't know. I haven't heard any of that information. So, and, you know, it's difficult to speak in this way, right
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Because you can talk about all that, and it could be the opposite. Ms. Robert was doing everything that she could do to raise him
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She was coming back every week. she was, you know, doing all this, this, this
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and then he still turned out this way. I mean, what can this Robbie do
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So now I just thought about something. That a good point because if she was doing all of that all the things they say you should do as a parent right Because we know ain no book to it If she was doing all of that and she still turned out this way maybe this is why now Miss Robby is overcompensating right
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She's trying to make up for what she feel like she maybe didn't do
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Or because parents, we have, you know, we said, oh, man, I should have did this better
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Or I should have put him in basketball instead of football. Oh, I should have put him in, you know, he told me he went to be in band that time, but I didn't send him to this school that they had the band program
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You know, you put you put it on yourself as a mom, especially she was a single mom
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So I can't imagine, right? She probably have a lot of guilt about what she did and did not do
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And now, can you imagine at how is Miss Robbie, 80, 80 something years, she in her 80s
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Thinking about trying to figure out how to still be the perfect mom
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that's a lot to hold on to that's a lot to carry for a grown man you know we got to realize as
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parents really as black kids too that when our sons get to a certain age they got to make their
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own decisions and we can't have no part of this you know if you know that you did the best you
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you did the best that you could you you try to make the best decisions for your son you know
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While he was in your care, you, you know, try to steer him the right way, try to write him wrong, things like that
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And then now he do this. We got him to do with that. You can't you can't carry that
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Especially in your 80s. Come on now. He got to take full responsibility and accountability for what he has done all of his life
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Because, again, no matter if the mom was working, the mom was working
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That don't mean that you're supposed to act out. I mean, as a child, you've got to get to a point, you know, where you understand it
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Kids don't really understand it. But as an adult, right, it's kind of like back to all the things we named, right
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Now you went to prison at 17. Now you out at what
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He was at 14 years. You're 27, 28 years old. You out? oh mama's issue wasn't that for me now he expecting he entitled to get something
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when i get home you gonna give me those restaurants you gonna give me everything
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that you wouldn't ever give me when i was a kid everything i wanted all the times i longed for you
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all the times i wanted to be near my mama all the times i wanted to come to california with you or
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wherever you were, you didn't come get me and this, this, and this, you're going to make up for it
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Now I'm going to make up. He is, it's almost like not that he intended to do it, but in here, right
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I'm going to make you pay. So you're going to let me open 50 restaurants if I want to, you're going to do it
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